I walked through the dimly lit hallway and was ushered through a
doorway to an office no bigger than my bathroom. To my right were an
older metal desk, two chairs and a small tower of boxes containing what
appeared to be files. To my left was a larger tower of boxes, also with
what appeared to be files. She greeted me with a handshake and her warm
brown eyes twinkled as she welcomed me “Hello Jennifer, I’m Linda.” I
shakily greeted her back. I felt raw, exposed and alone before our
meeting but something in her eyes told me this was to be a life changing
event. Three weeks prior I had been watching a Lifetime movie and at
the close o
f the movie, they spoke of
RAINN. Three weeks prior I had been the SURVIVOR of a sexual assault.
Following the incident I fell in to a deep depression. I had no friends,
my parents had their own issues at the time and I was going through a
divorce. I felt I had nothing to lose calling the number asking….where
do I go from here? Through weeks of sessions I learned several things. I
learned to be my own best friend. I began ‘dating’ myself. I would go
and have dinner after my Wednesday sessions and listen to my own inner
thoughts and guidance. I learned that I cannot change anyone’s actions,
personality or opinions. I can only change how I react to them. But most
of all I learned that I am strong. I can take any situation in life and
turn it in to a positive outcome. She helped me find the best in myself
then, and today the ones who helped me find the best in myself is YOU.
Each of your kind words through comments and messaging filled me with
hope, just as her brown eyes did for me years ago.
Thank you ALL.
“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.”
―
Nelson Mandela
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